Providing Help: Helping Survivors of Intimate Partner Violence with Lauren Stiger
Lauren Stiger, Development and Volunteer Manager, Domestic Violence Services of Snohomish County
This October, in recognition of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we were honored to have Lauren Stiger from Domestic Violence Services of Snohomish County (DVS) join us to discuss the crucial support and advocacy they provide for individuals and families affected by intimate partner violence (IPV). Lauren, who has been with DVS for about two years as the Development Manager, shared valuable insights about the organization’s mission, services, and the impact they have in our community.
Founded in 1976 by a small group of women, DVS has evolved significantly over the decades, officially becoming a nonprofit in 1978 and undergoing several name changes to reflect its inclusive support to both men and women, as well as children affected by IPV. With the current name adopted in 2008, DVS operates the only confidential emergency shelter in the area, which is also one of the largest in the state, accommodating up to 52 individuals and 13 families at a time.
Lauren highlighted the alarming statistics that at least one in four women and one in seven men have been victims of IPV, with one in fifteen children witnessing such violence, 60% of whom are direct victims themselves. DVS addresses these issues through a comprehensive range of services, including a 24-hour hotline, legal advocacy, and supportive housing, alongside prevention education to promote healthy relationships and reduce IPV incidence.
During her talk, Lauren emphasized the challenge many face in leaving abusive relationships, noting it often takes individuals 7-9 attempts to finally break away. She detailed how DVS’s supportive services, such as trauma-informed care at the shelter and extensive legal and housing support, play a crucial role in aiding survivors' transitions to safety and stability.
Additionally, Lauren shared opportunities for community involvement, from volunteering in various capacities—both directly with survivors and in support roles like fundraising and maintenance—to participating in major fundraising events like the Annual Chocolate and Wine Lover Gala and the Handbag Auction. These events are vital for funding the extensive services DVS offers.
Lauren's presentation was not only enlightening but also a compelling call to action for all of us to support and contribute to the fight against intimate partner violence, ensuring a safer, more supportive community for everyone impacted by IPV.
