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July 28, 2026
Rotary Lunch Meeting
at Piatti's 
 
President Debbie Hudson Presiding
 
 
President Hudson rang the bell and welcomed everyone to
the Rotary Club of Arden Arcade!
 
Pledge
Chris Lewis 
 
 
President Ross asked Chris Lewis to lead the club in the pledge to our nation's flag. 
 
He then asked Mike Grace to provide the invocation.
 
Both members did as requested.
Invocation
Mike Grace
President Hudson led the club in the 4-Way without the aid of the answers.
& Visiting Rotarians!
 
 
 
Guest - Milad Parsa
 
PP Matt Ross introduced Milad Parsa with First Citizens Bank.  This is his third visit with us and hopefully it will be his las visit as a guest.
 
Guest - Laith Kailany
 
Chris Figeuora announced that he has an assistant.  She could not attend the meeting today because someone has to work... and it was not going to be Chris, as he is dedicated to the duties of being Al Cady's assistant. He decided that his assistant's fiancé would be a fitting substitute for her and so, fiancé Laith was treated to the Rotary lunch. He is not only Chris' assistant's fiancé but will also be his new online QuickBooks expert.  Laith has been shadowing Chris all week to see just how busy he is and all that his future boss does.
 
 
 
 
 
 
      Bells,             Boasts,           and Bitches
 
"Em-Bell-ish"
 
SHOW ME THE MONEY!
 
A postman knocked on my door the other day and complained that our puppy was chasing him on his bike. I told him that was ridiculous. Our puppy doesn't even have a bike!
 
 
Bell Ringer - Prez Debbie 
 
The Prez led off the Bell Ringers with a boast about her 4.5-year-old granddaughter.  She participated in her first swim meet, and she swam freestyle, backstroke and kickboard (kickboard will soon be an Olympic event.) She qualified to be in the finals.  Not bad for her first outing as a swimmer.
 
 
 
Happy Buckkk-Bell Ringer? - Joe Green
 
Joe was Rotarian-shamed by Ryan Driffell into Happy Bucking and then immediately got upgraded to a Bell Ringer status by someone with personal knowledge that Joe may have been doing very well with his Pit Boss Jerky booth at the State Fair. "While it has been absolutely exhausting, it has been a great experience!"  He gave a nod to PDG Steve being out at the fair in an official law enforcement capacity.
 
 
 
 
Happy Bucks - Milad Parsa
 
Milad was giving Happy Bucks in gratitude that his one-year-old daughter was okay after falling from shoulder height and hitting the ground.  We were scared to death that she was going to be seriously hurt.  We are thankful she was not and is okay.
 
 
 
Nervous Bucks - PP Matt Ross
 
Matt shared that his daughter is currently on a flight to Copenhagen and is going to be spending the next three weeks traveling in Europe. "I'd be a Bell Ringer for it, but I'm saving money in case she calls and says it's only a two- week trip. and says 'Dad, I need money to get back.' "
 
 
Happy Bucks - PDG Turner
 
PDG Turner shared that his daughter is healing well after her accident but was motivated to give primarily because he appreciated the arm-twisting performed by Ryan Driffell with regards to Joe Green and his reluctant Bell Ringer. "I really like seeing that we can help throw somebody under the bus when we need to. Good job!"
 
 
 
Happy Bucks - Chris Lewis
 
Chris is happy that school is starting. Samantha is a teacher, and the kids go to school... so now I have a free house.
 
 
That's Fine With Me!
Fine?
Someone shared with the Prez that PDG Turner purchased a new car...
 
The fine is $25 per wheel...
 
Does that include the spare tire, the driving wheel, and as it is a Ford Explorer does the fine increase with the size of the wheel? 
 
(Steve may not have been as pleased with the Rotarian-shamed
arm-twisting
as he was previously.)
Not-so-fine!
Chris Lewis...
was quick with his hand & was the most visible to the Prez, earning her the opportunity to answer the Secret Word question.
Brickyard
was the secret word.
 
It was in reference to the destination that Christine Jensen had been traveling to before an errant tire took out the undercarriage of her RV. She is flying to the brickyard now instead of driving.
 
Chris won... 
a fine bottle of carefully
hand-crafted Virgin Olive Oil.
Crafted using the cold extraction method and crushed only by young virgin Italian women.
 
*** Member Minute ***
Joelle Fondale
 
President Debbie called Joelle to the front of the room to present her Member Minute Report.  Joelle noted that she was going to need more than a minute as she was going to talk about her "First Time."
 
You never forget your first time. And I'm in total agreement.​​​​​​​ There I was, standing on the beach, completely comatose.​​​​​​​ I've never been an athlete growing up, and even during my training, I'd never actually swum 2.4 miles, cycled 112, or run a full marathon. But there I was, moments away from the cannon going off, preparing to do all three in one day and hopefully in less than 17 hours. I woke up roughly at 3 am on June 25 in 2006 to begin.
 
 
In my day, that meant trying to consume close to 800 calories and get to the race start by 5am. I dropped off all my race bags and my bike the day before, so there was not much to do that morning except check my bag, bike, put on my wetsuit and walk to the starting area.​​​​​​​ After a final kiss to my family, I walked down to the beach with my fellow tri-chick buddies.​​​​​​​ At that point, none of us could talk.​​​​​​​ We drank a little water, ate a last-minute bar, put our hands over our heart for the national anthem, and then the cannon went off.
 
​​​​​​​In 2006, approximately 2,000 athletes entered the water at the exact same time to begin the swim.​​​​​​​ The best way I can describe it is it felt like swimming in a washing machine.​​​​​​​ The water was a chilly 61 degrees, and when you finished the swim, two volunteers, known as wetsuit strippers, (strippers is the secret word) grab you, throw you on the ground, and pull the wetsuit off.​​​​​​​ Then you ran into the changing tent to put on your cycling gear.​​​​​​​ 
 
The bike portion was all about managing your resources while trying to move forward.​​​​​​​ That meant consuming about 250 calories an hour.​​​​​​​ And that was mostly real food, like pretzels, Wheat Thins, paydays, Peanut Butter and jelly sandwiches and anything else I could tolerate.​​​​​​​ I also needed to drink a bottle of water every hour, take a couple salt pills, and think of five things I was grateful for every time.​​​​​​​ Ten miles.​​​​​​​ Yes, I also learned how to pee on my bike.​​​​​​​ I wasn't going to waste precious time in the Porta Potty.​​​​​​​ 
 
One of the best things about Coeur d' Alene that year was you got to pass your family four separate times on the bike.​​​​​​​ Seeing them gave me the excitement and the strength I needed to keep moving forward.​​​​​​​ After nearly seven hours on the bike, I got off.​​​​​​​ I handed my bike to the volunteer, barely able to stand up by stumbling into the changing team.​​​​​​​ Inside, each athlete had a volunteer to help them change, touch their feet and socks.​​​​​​​ I told you I peed on the bike.​​​​​​​ Oh yeah, they gave me gummy bears, which I still remember to this day.​​​​​​​ How delicious they were.​​​​​​​ After sitting there for about 10 minutes, I realized I had to get going.
 
​​​​​​​I was so excited to run because I thought I was finally able to chat with some of my fellow athletes. During the bike portion drafting is not allowed, so the only words you usually exchange with other cyclists are when you pass them or they pass you.​​​​​​​ I gave my family a few more kisses as I headed out of transition for my first ever marathon.​​​​​​​ At first it felt like somebody attached 20 extra pounds to each of my legs.​​​​​​​ But from training I knew that would wear off within a couple miles.​​​​​​​ It did wear off and I started checking my mile splits on my handy Timex.
​​​​​​​Things were different 20 years ago.​​​​​​​ I kept tapping the watch because I was convinced something was wrong with it because I was moving so slow.​​​​​​​ Even though I was slow, I finally decided it was time to finally start chatting with my fellow athletes.​​​​​​​ I quickly discovered no one wanted to talk with me.​​​​​​​ 
 
By the time I started the marathon, it was close to 4pm and Coeur d' Alene was experiencing a record high temperature of 97 degrees.​​​​​​​ My plan was to drink and eat a little something at every aid station, which was every mile.​​​​​​​ Soon I also added walking through every aid station and walking up the hills.​​​​​​​ Before long, I decided curves were also considered mountains, so I walked those two.​​​​​​​ Since none of the other athletes wanted to talk to me, I decided I needed a new form of entertainment.​​​​​​​ My new plan was to rate all the men on a scale of 1 to 10 as they were running towards the finish line.​​​​​​​ Since the race was approximately 70%, 75% men, I thought this would entertain me for hours.​​​​​​​ Quickly though, I discovered every damn man out there was a 10.
 
Somewhere around mile 18 to 20 I was done.​​​​​​​ I was exhausted.​​​​​​ I was fried.​​​​​​​ I had rashes in places we don't want to talk about.​​​​​​​ But I was still happy.​​​​​​​ By then I also started using the porta potties just as a place to sit down for a few seconds.​​​​​​​ I knew I needed a new plan.​​​​​​​ I decided I would walk till mile 24.​​​​​​​ My parents had recently told me, told me that they could walk together and hold a 15 minute mile.​​​​​​​ So I thought if they could walk a 15 minute mile, so could I.​​​​​​​ Eventually I made it to mile 24.​​​​​​​ At that point I could hear the crowds cheering near the finish line.​​​​​​​ This is the moment when I realized I was actually going to make it.​​​​​​​ I had more than three hours to travel only two miles and I knew I could crawl it if necessary with approximately 1 mile left.​​​​​​​ Back then they let you take your kids over the finish line.​​​​​​​ I took the hands of each of my children.​​​​​​​ My daughter Madison (she paused to catch her composure) see, I still get choked up.​​​​​​​ Madison was 11 and my son Jack was 9.​​​​​​​ Let me tell you, when an 11 and a 9-year-old have been standing around all day long and bored out of their mind, they can run fast.​​​​​​​ They grabbed my hands and took off running and practically pulled me on the straight of my face a few minutes later.​​​​​​​ Later we all crossed the finish line.​​​​​​​ And then I heard the words too.​​​​​​​ El fondo.​​​​​​​ 
 
That was approximately 20 years ago.​​​​​​​ I may not be the fastest or the best athlete back then, but that day taught me we are capable of doing so much more than we think we are.​​​​​​​ Especially when we keep moving forward, adjust our plan when necessary, maintain a sense of humor and have the people we love waiting for us at the finish line.​​​​​​​ 
 
Jacob Peterson
CEO of Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Greater Sacramento Area
 
Jacob was born in Auburn CA. and raised in Roseville.  His father left the family when he was only 6 years old. He was raised by a single mother diagnosed with cervical cancer.  He faced uncertainty about his future care and support.
 
Jacob has led the organizational growth via strategic planning, fundraising, board development, operational excellence, and community partnerships over the past three years. During this time, he has expanded program matches from 50 to over 300.
 
## Summary:
Jacob Peterson, CEO of Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Greater Sacramento area, shares the organization's mission and impact on youth mentorship. Under his leadership, the program has grown significantly, expanding from 50 to over 300 matches and serving vulnerable youth aged 8 to 21 from low-income families, single-parent households, and foster care. Peterson recounts his personal experience with mentorship, highlighting how a caring adult transformed his life by providing support, encouragement, and guidance, which inspired him to become a mentor himself. The program fosters long-term relationships, with an average match length of six and a half years, and demonstrates measurable positive outcomes such as improved mental health, higher high school graduation rates, and reduced involvement in the correctional system. New initiatives include workplace mentorship programs and classroom volunteering, aiming to prepare youth for college and career success. The organization emphasizes the urgent need for male volunteers to match the predominantly male youth population and offers various ways to get involved, including becoming a mentor, joining committees, sponsoring matches, or participating in fundraising events. The presentation underscores the transformative power of mentorship in creating lasting impact and community support for at-risk youth.
 
 
## Overview of Big Brothers Big Sisters (BBBS)
- Over 120 years of history nationwide
- Specializes in youth mentorship
- Connects vulnerable youth with positive, caring adult mentors called "Bigs"
- Focus on supporting youth from low income, single-parent, or foster care backgrounds
 
## Jacob Peterson's Personal Mentorship Story
 
### Early Life Challenges
- Born in Auburn, raised in West Roseville
- Father left when he was 6; raised by single mother diagnosed with cervical cancer
- Faced uncertainty about future care and support
 
### Impact of Mentorship
- Mentors provided rides to church, attended basketball games, and spent quality time
- Mentorship helped build confidence and encouraged thinking beyond current circumstances
- Mentors introduced concept of college and reaching higher goals
 
### Becoming a Mentor
- Inspired by his own mentors, Jacob became a "Big" in college
- Matched with a 6-year-old named Xavier facing similar challenges
- Provided consistent support, encouragement, and guidance
- Maintained a 17-year friendship; Xavier was a groomsman at Jacob's wedding
- Mentor who officiated the wedding was also his own mentor, symbolizing the family-like community created
 
## BBBS Greater Sacramento Chapter
 
### Scope and Reach
- Operating for 63 years
- Serves 10 counties, primarily Sacramento
- Youth ages 8 to 21
- Focus on kids lacking support at home
 
### Volunteer Commitment
- Volunteers (Bigs) commit to 1 year minimum
- Meet 2-4 times per month
- Activities chosen by volunteers: sports, homework help, confidence building
- Average match lasts 6.5 years, often continuing beyond 21 years old
 
## Program Impact
 
### Mental Health and Well-Being
- Mentors often the only trusted adult in child's life
- Provide emotional support and a safe space to discuss struggles
 
### Educational Outcomes
- 95% of mentees graduate high school on time with a future plan
- Mentees are 5x more likely to attend college
 
### Life Choices and Behavior
- Mentees less likely to engage in drug/alcohol use
- Reduced involvement with the correctional system
- Mentors serve as a sounding board and guide for better decision-making
 
## New Program Initiatives
 
### Workplace Mentorship
- Partnerships with companies like Raley's and Tri Counties Bank
- Youth aged 15-17 visit corporate campuses
- Learn about life skills, college, and career pathways
 
### Classroom Mentorship
- Volunteers visit classrooms from elementary to high school
- Provide one-on-one time with students
 
## Volunteer Opportunities and Needs
 
### Becoming a Big
- Especially need male volunteers (70% of kids are boys but only 35% of volunteers are male)
- No upper age limit; many volunteers are 50+
- Volunteers receive support and free tickets to events (sports, movies, bowling)
 
### Other Ways to Get Involved
- Committee and board member roles (finance, fundraising, program committees)
- Sponsorship of matches to support program costs
- Event volunteering
 
## Annual Events
- Spring golf tournament
- Fall gala (October 3rd) featuring:
  - Stories from matches
  - Big and Little of the Year awards
  - Hall of Fame induction
  - Live auction
 
## Current Program Statistics
- Approximately 380 kids in the program locally (fall season)
- Launching 5 new school sites
- Over 100 kids on the waiting list
- Referrals come from parents, teachers, school counselors, and community partners
 
## Q&A Highlights
 
### Multiple Siblings in Program
- Example of a family with three boys, two matched successfully
- One without a mentor struggled and became involved in the correctional system
- Demonstrates the critical impact of mentorship
 
### Overcoming Barriers to Higher Education
- Mentors challenge limiting beliefs about college affordability and accessibility
- Educate on financial aid and scholarships
- Encourage belief in one's potential beyond current circumstances
 
## Closing Remarks
- Jacob emphasizes the mission to create lasting impact
- Encourages everyone to find a way to get involved regardless of time commitment
- Thanks audience for participation
 
The Prez thanked everyone for coming and adjourned the meeting a little after 12:57 PM.
Dad Joke of the Day
Dedicated to PDG Steve Turner
 
The famous singer Sting has been kidnapped.
The Police have no lead.
 
Respectfully (more or less) submitted by,
 
Mike Grace
Reporter, Photographer, and Editor
 
Hellen Weight
Ombudsman and Content Supervisor
 
DISCLAIMER - Some of the information provided in some of the articles and possibly included in some of the "quotes" from club members, may have been a fabrication of a demented mind.   It is up to you to determine fact from fiction.  Individuals objecting to all or any parts herein, are encouraged to go to Hellen Weight to lodge a formal complaint.
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Arden-Arcade
Service Above Self
Tuesdays at 12:00 PM
Piatti
571 Pavilions Lane
Arden-Arcade, CA 95825
United States of America
Phone:
(916) 801-7090
 
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