Bow Rotary Club's
Weekly Bulletin
 
Meeting Date:      April 12, 2024 
Presiding:            President Matt Dodge 
Greeter:               Melissa Howard
President Matt opened the meeting at 07:30 and greeter Melissa shared some inspiration with a poem “To Laugh Often and Much” by Ralph Waldo Emmerson.  
 
Attendance:
31 Live
2 Zoom
0 Visiting Rotarians
2 Guests
1 Guest Speakers
36 Total
Guests: Joya Dennehy, guest of Ben Kiniry, Liam Miller, current Interact President
Announcements:
  • The district has positions open for District Governor, Treasurer, and Secretary; We get 2 votes based on size of our club.  The nominees in the three roles are uncontested but we would still want a vote; District Governor -Ruth Clough, Treasurer – Jeff Mobus, Secretary – Gale Kenison; vote passed 
     
  • Liam Miller-Interact: Last weekend was the egging – people paid to have Interact create Easter egg hunts. Interact had their election at last meeting – new board will be switching over in the next few weeks. Holding a coin drive during Bowlympics – each grade can donate coins and earn points for the event. Jugs are placed around the school where people donate loose change. The coins go to Merrimack Advocacy Network. The Sleep-Out was good, but could not do it outside due to weather.
     
  • Roadside Pickup – Tom Ives indicated we have 15 people signed up. Volunteers will meet April 20th at the end of 89 at 7:30 am. (Park at the Park and Ride at the end of 89.) 
     
  • 1st Grade Readers – Carol Niegisch indicated 1st grade readers is scheduled for May 10th right after the Rotary meeting. Still have 2 slots open for Dunbarton.
     
  • Car Show – Gerry Carrier shared that it is 5 weeks until the show. Info on the t shirts – they will be while, 100% cotton and preshrunk. Sign up for a t shirt – need to get order in by Monday April 15th. Asking former trophy and major sponsors to sponsor again this year. Sign up list will be coming out in the next week or two. Posters available to post. 35 cars signed up.
     
  • Dick Swett shared that April 15th is tax day and report day for the Malawi project.
 
Sergeant at Arms: Tanya Frost
Birthdays: 
Dean Cascadden: (not present)
 
Steve DeStefano: His an Easter baby – turned 68 this year. His wife Ellen still works at Waypoint 2 times a week – working with the elderly and shut-ins. His daughter Casey works with him sometimes and full time with Fishercats. Brannon 13 going to high school next year. Allison just finished second masters degree and is getting her doctorate, while working in emergency room. Kimberly is finishing a masters at BU and works at Waypoint. His kids are all saving the world. Steve sold company end of Sept last year – not smoothest transaction, but going along. Had shoulder surgery so his pitching isn’t what it used to be.
 
Mike Griffin– He works with employers on employee benefits, which is a challenging environment today. However, his business is trending in right direction. Married 31 years and his daughter had a baby this year. Charlie Drew is almost 6 months old. His daughter bought a house in Epsom so they can see grandbaby often. His son proposed to his long time girlfriend. Dave’s Eclipse story – son and girlfriend live in North Conway – stayed with them and decided to drive to Errol NH for the eclipse. The volume of traffic fine until Wildcat and them stop and go to Gorham. Went to Milan, NH – ski jump – watched the eclipse there and it was awesome. Drive home was easy. 
Fines: 
Matt Dodge - pin
Happy Bucks:
Chris Parkinson - $20 for being away for 25 days to Hawaii, Tahiti and French Polynesia. Had a great 24 days and got sick on the 25th day with pneumonia. It was a great trip – went to Hawaii with 2 grandkids and their parents – great day in Pearl Harbor, while the catamaran dinner cruise left most of them sea sick. They held an impromptu rotary meeting on the ship – 2 other club members meeting in piano bar. He also gave a Polynesian Orana for Melissa.
 
Gerry Carrier – 4 hrs in Vermont trying to get back from the Eclipse
 
Bob Couch – Got his cast off after 6 weeks and will be in a boot for 4 weeks. He will be able to do full weight bearing in a week and a half.
 
Tom Ives – In Newport, VT for the eclipse. Spent the night in Woodstock, NH – drive up was fine (2 hrs), 5-6 hr trip back.
 
Tamar Roberts– She made boat reservations for August, will be gone to Newfoundland almost the whole month and is excited to be going by herself.
 
Vanessa Palange – She is finding herself for being late last week with the bulletin. She also gave an ‘I told you so’ to all those who were driving for the eclipse. She survived the eclipse/snow/Seabrook station Armageddon of last week AND put together her first press conference from start to finish involving the governor. Excited to have a weekend. 
 
John Ruggles – He walked from his house and got 97% of eclipse
 
Ryan Anastasi – Excited to be starting the day with Rotary. He also needs recommendations on a carpenter – his shed is boarded up but no door. Need siding, trim, and a door.
 
Dick Swett – He was in the 6 hr crowd with Gerry for the eclipse. He and family went to Williston VT. Honored that Judge Broderick is speaking, as he has been a mentor in his life and a dear friend.
 
Program: 
Judy Goodnow introduced Judge John Broderick  – Rotary International Mental Health Action Group was originally created to deal with the result of conflict and war in other countries. Many who need treatment do not seek it nor is it readily available. The hope is that involvement by Rotary clubs will reduce the stigma and more people will be comfortable talking about mental health and seek treatment.
 
John Broderick is the Senior Director of External Affairs at Dartmouth Health and former Chief Justice of NH Supreme Court. He is seeking to change the conversation around mental illness to destigmatize it. 
 
Judge Broderick shared that he has had some amazing professional experiences and this is the most important work of his professional life. In the world he is from no one discussed mental health. He didn’t see mental illness when it came into his own house and impacted his son. They talked to the experts who shared that his son is an alcoholic. The good news was the family came through it and healed as a family. His son taught him so much about mental health. He didn’t do much about mental health for awhile but 8 years ago he got involved in a campaign. Barbara Van Dahlen – Times 100 list 2012 – she had an idea to make the 5 most common sides of mental health as widely known as the signs for heart attack or stroke.
 
His son was in favor of him doing it even with their family story coming up. He ventured out onto the stage of mental health. They launched the campaign on May 23rd 2016. Mental Health awareness announcement – house chamber was packed. Distinguished members of community were there. Barbara asked, “Anyone in this chamber who has been untouched by mental health, please raise your hand” Not one hand went up. 
Statistics – 1 in 5 adolescents has a diagnosable mental health problem, 1 in 5 adults too. More police officers and first responders died by suicide than any other cause in line of duty combined. 
 
What are we doing about it? Launched campaign – waited to be invited to speak. Last 7.5 years have spoken 800 times. Visited 300+ MS and HS. 
 
65% in women’s prison in NH have a diagnosable mental health disorder, 20% in the community at large. Not a coincidence those numbers exist behind bars. Most people with mental health disorders will not commit a crime – they are CEOs, clergy and your neighbors. We need to change and talk about mental health. 
 
When Judge Broderick talks to kids he listens to them and encourages us to do the same. They will come up to him and are open. There are a lot of reasons for adolescent mental health (trauma, ACEs, etc.) He believes a lot is socially and culturally induced. Anxiety and depression are epidemic among young people. 
 
Look at the changes that have happened because we are brave and strong enough to talk about things (breast cancer, AIDS….). But we aren’t there with mental health – we are better than we used to be, but haven’t arrived. It affects far more people and families. He is going to use his voice as often as he can.
 
Childhood has changed in this country and around the world. Over structuring, over competing, overscheduling kids.  Too many kids who feel the pressure to succeed. Encourages kids to talk with their parents (or a counselor at school). Childhood has a purpose. We are building fences around kids. 
 
Kids are under stress that many of us never dealt with. Most kids today spend 4-8 hrs a day on a screen. 
 
Message – some kids aren’t allowed to live the childhood they have. We could fix this if we wanted to.
 
Statistics – half of adolescents in the US feel the have no trusted adult in their life; before COVID surveys of high schoolers by CDC in 2019 found 46.6% of HS girls said they were depressed (sad or hopeless for 2 or more consecutive weeks in the last year). 25% of HS boys were depressed. 26% of HS girls had given serious consideration to ending their own lives in the last year, 15% made plans, 11.3% attempted suicide. 
 
What areJudy Goodnow introduced Judge John Broderick  – Rotary International Mental Health Action Group was originally created to deal with the result of conflict and war in other countries. Many who need treatment do not seek it nor is it readily available. The hope is that involvement by Rotary clubs will reduce the stigma and more people will be comfortable talking about mental health and seek treatment.
 
 
John Broderick is the Senior Director of External Affairs at Dartmouth Health and former Chief Justice of NH Supreme Court. He is seeking to change the conversation around mental illness to destigmatize it. 
 
Judge Broderick shared that he has had some amazing professional experiences and this is the most important work of his professional life. In the world he is from no one discussed mental health. He didn’t see mental illness when it came into his own house and impacted his son. They talked to the experts who shared that his son is an alcoholic. The good news was the family came through it and healed as a family. His son taught him so much about mental health. He didn’t do much about mental health for awhile but 8 years ago he got involved in a campaign. Barbara Van Dahlen – Times 100 list 2012 – she had an idea to make the 5 most common sides of mental health as widely known as the signs for heart attack or stroke.
 
His son was in favor of him doing it even with their family story coming up. He ventured out onto the stage of mental health. They launched the campaign on May 23rd 2016. Mental Health awareness announcement – house chamber was packed. Distinguished members of community were there. Barbara asked, “Anyone in this chamber who has been untouched by mental health, please raise your hand” Not one hand went up. 
Statistics – 1 in 5 adolescents has a diagnosable mental health problem, 1 in 5 adults too. More police officers and first responders died by suicide than any other cause in line of duty combined. 
 
What are we doing about it? Launched campaign – waited to be invited to speak. Last 7.5 years have spoken 800 times. Visited 300+ MS and HS. 
 
65% in women’s prison in NH have a diagnosable mental health disorder, 20% in the community at large. Not a coincidence those numbers exist behind bars. Most people with mental health disorders will not commit a crime – they are CEOs, clergy and your neighbors. We need to change and talk about mental health. 
 
When Judge Broderick talks to kids he listens to them and encourages us to do the same. They will come up to him and are open. There are a lot of reasons for adolescent mental health (trauma, ACEs, etc.) He believes a lot is socially and culturally induced. Anxiety and depression are epidemic among young people. 
 
Look at the changes that have happened because we are brave and strong enough to talk about things (breast cancer, AIDS….). But we aren’t there with mental health – we are better than we used to be, but haven’t arrived. It affects far more people and families. He is going to use his voice as often as he can.
 
Childhood has changed in this country and around the world. Over structuring, over competing, overscheduling kids.  Too many kids who feel the pressure to succeed. Encourages kids to talk with their parents (or a counselor at school). Childhood has a purpose. We are building fences around kids. 
 
Kids are under stress that many of us never dealt with. Most kids today spend 4-8 hrs a day on a screen. 
 
Message – some kids aren’t allowed to live the childhood they have. We could fix this if we wanted to.
 
Statistics – half of adolescents in the US feel the have no trusted adult in their life; before COVID surveys of high schoolers by CDC in 2019 found 46.6% of HS girls said they were depressed (sad or hopeless for 2 or more consecutive weeks in the last year). 25% of HS boys were depressed. 26% of HS girls had given serious consideration to ending their own lives in the last year, 15% made plans, 11.3% attempted suicide. 
 
What are we doing about this? Silence is not the answer. If you have a mental health problem – who do you call, who pays for it? 
 
 
Need our voices and our impatience. Can’t fix this by himself. We need to talk about it – that is how change happens.  we doing about this? Silence is not the answer. If you have a mental health problem – who do you call, who pays for it? 
 
Need our voices and our impatience. Can’t fix this by himself. We need to talk about it – that is how change happens. 
 
President Matt closed the meeting with a toast to Rotary the World over.
 
Respectfully Submitted, 
Katie Minihan
 
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Upcoming Events
Board Meeting
Apr. 15, 2024
 
Roadside Pickup
Apr. 20, 2024
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District Assembly in White River Junction
Apr. 27, 2024
 
Rotary Park Cleanup
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Apr. 27, 2024
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First Grade Book Reading
May 10, 2024
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Bow Rotary Car Show
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May 18, 2024
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