It has been two months. Quarantine. Social distancing. Whatever we are calling it. At the end of the day, this social experiment has not been easy for most of us. What I have learned above all else through this time — reminded of, really — is to appreciate the small things. “Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude.” (Denis Waitley) Our lives are a collection of millions of little moments. If you can appreciate those moments, you will find yourself far happier; you will find yourself living in those moments instead of waiting for something to come along to bring happiness to you. I struggle to find happiness in the big things much less staying focused on finding happiness in the little things. I have related to you all some of those struggles. But this... Well, I like to joke that I am built for social distancing. I am not a “hugger”, at least not willingly. Please take no offense if you are. It is not personal; I just am more comfortable keeping a safe distance even before it was public policy. And being told that I have to stay home is a welcome relief from all the times I have been told I need to do different things that keep me away from home. And something you probably don’t know about me: I love to cook. Staying home and preparing dinner for my family has been perhaps the best thing to come from all of this. |